Friday, February 19, 2010

Happy Birthday - well at least half

Today is Aaron and Stella's half birthday! Now we never celebrated half birthdays when I was a kid but we plan to do it up right here in the Barnhart household. I think the last time I marked one of these was when they celebrated their first 6 months but 2 year olds keep us pretty busy (which is why there have been less blogs).

Lots of things have happened but one of the hallmarks of this age is rapid change.


Hello everybody!

Stella NEVER stops talking. But what is remarkable to me is how she is testing language - she says things several times but each time she adds more words forming longer sentences. I am always amazed by what she remembers and by what she says. I'm learning that I need to hang in there with her until she makes me understand because when I don't she looks at me like I am stupid. She loves Toy Story II and The Adventures of Milo and Otis and all her trains and her Mr. Potato Head. She loves climbing and jumping and just being active. Most of what she says just makes us laugh. My current favorite is "Here comes poopie" when we change her dirty diaper. Our girl is so silly.
She is also learning that there are some things we can't resist - like the snuggle. She is master at asking for a snuggle when you are in the middle of something. She tends to go for her dad just as he's about to start working. It is hard to turn down a 2 1/2 year old who is asking you for a snuggle. There is renewed interest in the potty which we will have to master by the end of the summer since Stella is set to start preschool in the fall. David and I are so excited about this and we think Stella is just going to love it. As demanding as she can be, she is a very sweet girl. She's always reminding us when it's Aaron's turn to do something and if we get her something to drink she always asks for a drink for her brother. She's always looking to make a connection with him either by getting in his face and making noises or running past him and waiting for him to catch up. Stella is very aware of where Aaron is all the time.


It must have been 'no matching pants and shirts' day


These are the brown eyes he uses to get his way. Works every time.

Aaron was born a snuggler but somewhere between 1 year and 2 years he drifted away from that. Now he's come full circle and loves to be loved. For a long time he liked to do his own thing and was just as happy being alone as he was with us but he's different now. I'm not sure if this is just a natural progression for him but I feel like the therapy is helping. After the ASD diagnosis last October we've been more intentional about engaging him and it seems to be working. Although he still doesn't have words he is so interested in us - mostly our faces. He is very clear about when he wants our attention, even going so far as to grab our faces if we don't pay attention to him. When he wakes up in the morning he likes to have his milk and then hang out on the couch for 45 minutes with his dad. Aaron is a big fan of backrubs. His big smiles all day long are the most beautiful thing ever.


Mom, this old guy is snuggling me into submission. Help. Me.

This past week both kids have been pretty sick - fevers and chest rattling coughs. We've been wiping lots of noses.


Fevered and sinking into the couch after the 100th episode of Dora.


Mom, put down the camera and wipe my nose. Then get me some decent clothes.


Stella and her constant companion, Kitty.


We are 2 and a half today. Cheese!!!!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Christmas

Now that we own a flip we don't take as many pictures. But we did manage to snap a few Christmas morning. The kids didn't wake up too early and of course they had no idea that it was Christmas morning. Although I did get them an Advent calendar from Trader Joes I still don't think they know what we were counting down to. Stella just really enjoyed the little bit of chocolate she got to eat every morning. She would even share with brother some mornings.



Ok I open this little door here...



Opening all the doors now. Note her chocolate moustache.



Coloring at her new table from the Grandparents.



Even though he got lots of new books for Christmas, Aaron keeps going back to his favorites.



Someone is proud of their stacking ability.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Pre-Christmas Festivities

We headed to Winston to see family last weekend and besides the 14 hour drive (not kidding) and the icy roads we had a great time. Stella and Aaron got to see and play in snow last February but it was really wet and really cold. This time there was 6 inches on the ground and it was sunny and pretty warm.


I can't whistle gampa, my lips are fweezin!


Sledding in the backyard with Cousin Will.


Choosing a victim for a snowball attack.

Then we came in out of the cold for some music time.


And now I will play a few selections from The Goldberg Variations in the style of Glenn Gould...


The unorthodox "fist" technique of playing


Working the ivories with his leg thrown over the bench.



Stella with two of her favorite things - snowglobes and kitties.

The trip home was much less eventful and only 5 hours. We are so thankful for our family and the chance to spend time together!

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Prepping for the Holiday

We went and got our tree but waited a day to decorate so we could do it with Gma and Gpa. They even got Aaron and Stella their first nativity (the Little People one). I had dreams of getting the Christmas card picture done the same night but neither child was interested in posing.


The princess in her Christmas dress, coloring with Brobee.


The sunshine of my life in his Christmas sweater.



Unpacking and setting up the manger scene.



Putting the Angel on top...



And then trying out the donkey.

They moved into PJ's for decorating the tree and to watch Charlie Brown.



Our happy boy.



The happiest boy!



Taking her job very seriously.



Checking out his reflection.

Indeed the most wonderful time of the year. Season's Greetings!

Big Girl


Out for a night on the town to see the Radio City Music Hall Rockettes. She loved the dancing bears and elves and all the high kicking but lost interest in the second half when it got to ballet and all that.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Painting

Stella's new favorite thing to do is paint. It's really just a way to paint herself so she's only allowed to do this on bath night since she ends up a rainbow mess. But it is washable paint and she'll only be 2 for so long...


Choosing a color...


Starting with the hand...


And on to the nose.

Rainy Day


I can't walk in these boots mom. They are too big!


Hmmm, she doesn't seem to be having a problem...